Hi Nico, I appreciate your writing about how much you learned and grew from the discussions with your girlfriends. I always admire the vulnerability in your articles. But I wanted to offer that I’m constantly surprised to hear that people still argue so much, when most arguments are an attempt to influence the other person to your point of view. Adults, especially those you really care about, are allowed to think and feel however they choose, no? I’m not a saint or anything, but in matters of utmost importance, I try to negotiate so it’s a win-win and both people leave feeling good. Thanks for sharing, as always.